Wednesday, June 9, 2010

The Bet

It all started from the "Spreadsheet of Love."

My friend was telling me that he once created a spreadsheet to help him analyze a dating dilemma. He evaluated various scenarios of his next moves vs. outcomes by weighting his emotional in-flow and out-flow. It sounds CRAZY but also HILARIOUS.

So he started explaining the whole situation, methodology and intention, and then the subject got deviated into the early 20 something women's dating pov. We had a little disagreement there.

The key takeaway from our debate yesterday is that:

Jack: Girls in their early 20s don't know what they are really looking for in a man. They will never admit that they are actually hungery for tall, rich and pretty boys, and always give bs about their desire for personality traits in men (i.e. humor, sensitivity, passionate about what they do etc..)

Eva: Girls in their early 20s don't know what they are really looking for in a man. Some might admit that they only go out with good looking guys, and some might say desirable personality traits are more important. But the truth is that they have no clue what they want, and chances are, they end up dating the guy chasing them persistently, or the guys who make them feel better about themselves.

So go down to the betting thing....

Since my sister now is the only girl I know who is in her early 20s (sadness...), we asked my sister, "whats the top 3 things that you are looking for in a guy?" I bet $10 that she would list (at least) 1 physical traists (i.e. tall, big shoulders etc.) in her top 3 things.

And I won.